Ukuba i-tepi yakho ithethwe ngoshicilelo olungafunekiyo okanye ungafuni ukubona ngakumbi kum kuluhlu lomntu othile okanye abahlobo abaliqela, emva koko ungabhalisa kubo okanye ususe kuluhlu lwakho. Yenza ukuba ibe ngqo kwiphepha lakho. Zininzi iindlela zokusebenzisa ngale nkqubo. Ngamnye kubo ulungele iimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Sisusa umsebenzisi kubahlobo
Ukuba awusafuneki ukubona umsebenzisi othile kuluhlu lwam, unokuyicima. Kwenziwa lula kakhulu, ngamanyathelo nje ambalwa:
- Yiya kwiphepha lakho lobuqu apho ufuna ukuyisebenzisa khona le nkqubo.
- Sebenzisa indawo yokukhangela ukuze ufumane ngokukhawuleza umsebenzisi ofanelekileyo. Nceda uqaphele ukuba ukubangabahlobo bakho, xa ujonge umtya, uya kuboniswa kwizikhundla zokuqala.
- Yiya kwiphepha lakho lomhlobo wakho kwilungelo lakho kuya kubakho ikholamu apho kufuneka uveze uluhlu, emva koko unokususa lo mntu kuluhlu lwakho.
Ngoku awuyi kuwubona lo msebenzisi kubahlobo bakho, kwaye awuyi kuyibona impapasho yakhe kwiCamicle yakho. Nangona kunjalo, lo mntu usakhangela iphepha lakho lobuqu. Ukuba ufuna ukukhusela koku, ke kufuneka uyithintele.
Funda ngakumbi: Ungayiphepha njani umntu kwi-Facebook
Susa omnye komnye
Le ndlela ilungele abo bangafuniyo ukubona ukupapasha kwabo ekwenzeni kwawo. Ungamkhawulela imbonakalo yawo kwiphepha ngaphandle kokususa umntu kuluhlu lwakho. Ukwenza oku, ungazikhupheli kuyo.
Yiya kwiphepha lakho lobuqu, emva kokukhangela nge-facebook kufuneka ufumane umntu njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla. Yiya kwiprofayile yayo kwaye ngasekunene ukuze ubone "usayine" ithebhu. Imouse kuyo ukuze ivule imenyu apho kufuneka ukhethe "Rhoxisa ubhaliso ukuze ufumane uhlaziyo".
Ngoku awuyi kubona uhlaziyo lwalo mntu kwiteyiphu yam, kodwa izakuba kubahlobo bakho kwaye inokuphawula ukurekhoda kwakho, jonga iphepha lakho kwaye ubhale imiyalezo.
Ungabhalisi abantu aliqela ngaxeshanye
Masithi unenani elithile labahlobo abahlala bexoxa ngesihloko ongazithandiyo. Ngekhe ufune ukulandela le nto, ukuze ukwazi ukuthatha ithuba le-otpio enkulu. Oku kwenziwa ngolu hlobo:
Kwiphepha lakho lobuqu, cofa kwitolo, elungiselelwe ilungelo lemenyu yokukhangela ekhawulezileyo. Kuluhlu oluvula, khetha i "Iindise zeTepe".
Ngoku ubona imenyu entsha, apho kufuneka ukhethe into ethi "Rhoxisa abantu ukuba bafihle iimpapasho zabo." Cofa kuyo ukuze uyihlele.
Ngoku ungaphawula bonke abahlobo abafuna ukubhavuma, kwaye emva koko ucofe u "Gqibezela" ukuqinisekisa isenzo sakho.
Kule ndawo yokubhaliswa kugqityiwe, iimpapasho ezingafunekiyo aziyi kuvela kwiindaba zakho zendaba.
Ukuguqulelwa komhlobo kuluhlu lwabahlobo
Kwinethiwekhi yoluntu, i-facebook ifumaneka kuluhlu lwabantu abaqhelene nayo apho ungayiguqulela khona umhlobo okhethiweyo. Ukuguqulelwa kolu luhlu kuthetha ukuba eyona nto iphambili ekubonakaliseni iimpapasho zayo kwiteyiphu yakho ziya kushiywa de kube ubuncinci kwaye ungaze uphawule ukupapashwa komhlobo wakho. Inguqulelo yenqanaba eliqhelekileyo yile ilandelayo:
Usaya kwiphepha lakho lobuqu, apho ufuna ukuqwalaselwa khona. Sebenzisa ukukhangela i-Facebook ukuze ufumane ngokukhawuleza uMhlobo ofunekayo, emva koko uye kwiphepha layo.
Fumana i-icon elungileyo ngasekunene kwe-avatar, hambahamba isikhombisi sesalathisi kuyo ukuze uvule imenyu yokuseta. Khetha into "eqhelekileyo" ukuze uguqulele umhlobo kolu luhlu.
Kolu seto kugqityiwe, nangaliphi na ixesha ungaphinda ugqithise umntu kwimeko yomhlobo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, yisuse kubahlobo.
Yiyo yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nokususwa kwabahlobo kunye nabo. Nceda uqaphele ukuba ungabhalisa umntu ngalo naliphi na ixesha, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ucinyiwe kubahlobo, kwaye emva kokuba umlahle isicelo, kuya kuphuma ukuba luluhlu lwakho kuphela emva kokuba isicelo sakho ngokwaso sikhona.